Last updated: June 26 2014
In her book, Empower Your Presence, Catherine Bell illustrates how even the quality trait “shy” can magnify your presence positively.
People with presence are not always outwardly strong and confident. This is true with people who are shy. Typically, when shy people compare themselves to those who are outgoing, they are hard on themselves because they feel that they do not measure up. They are not aware of the positive impact they can have on others.
When Dan Stelter, author of the Anxiety Support Network1, was a guest writer on the Life Optimizer blog,2 he listed these seven things that shy people often see as weaknesses, which actually are positive traits and I believe they add to an empowered presence:
From an early age, Mahatma Gandhi was a very shy person. In fact, even as a lawyer in his early 30s, he could barely speak in front of a judge. He was unsuccessful in his profession, until he found the right cause and set about overcoming stumbling blocks created by his shyness. I am sure most people would agree that Gandhi, one of the major political and spiritual leaders of his time, had great presence and profoundly influenced the world.
Excerpted from Empower Your Presence. © Knowledge Bureau, Inc. All rights reserved.
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1 http://www.anxietysupportnetwork.com/index.php
2 Stelter, Dan, “7 Strengths Shy People Have,” 2012, http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2011/04/08/strengths-shy-people-have/